What the hell?
Alright, I don’t mean to generalize, but I am going to succumb to my temptation to do so anyway…so what the hell?? Are there any normal, honest men in NYC?? Ok, of course I know there are…but what’s up when you finally find one that you are interested in, enjoy spending time with, makes you laugh, is respectful, generous… and it turns out they lie about their age…not by a little, but A LOT. And when you ask them about it they don’t even have the common decency to come clean. In my opinion, very bad way to start any kind of anything.
Definitely a let down. 
On the more positive side of things, I can either let this experience harden and taint my feelings toward men or I can come from a higher place, step outside of myself and my own feelings and see the situation from a different vantage point and learn from it. As Abe says, “in each situation I encounter, I will find a way to set my tone within it for the changing, uplifting and adding to this physical experience.”
What I am realizing more so than ever before, is that although attraction is still important, I am really wanting a more spiritual connection with someone. Someone who is growing and expanding in his own life in more areas than just his business or job. Someone who gets this world at more than just the superficial level and doesn’t think law of attraction, allowing and creation are weird psychobabble topics. Hahaha, this is starting to sound like an online ad for dating so I think I will end here. Lol.
March 19, 2010 at 3:23 pm
word!
March 19, 2010 at 5:02 pm
I had a funny situation like that where I was on the other side. Lady asks me, how old I am. I tell my correct age. And she says.. what!!! I don’t believe you. And she asks for the proof. I oblige and I show my id !!!! Try it and find out how it goes..
March 19, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Look at the bright side, he was interested in you enough to go through a trouble of telling lies about his age… He is apparently not confident with his age so trying his best to still impress you or get better chances
On the other hand, I don’t think you are quite honest in this blog regarding what you really want from a man… Because you just have the commitment issues when you find a decent one lol…
March 25, 2010 at 2:52 am
Come to Florida, my dear. We value inner and outer beauty.